41 Ways to Be Popular

How to Be Popular

41 Ways to Be Popular
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  1. BE BOLD ENOUGH Even if you are a shy and introvert person, you will have to come out of your shell in order to become popular. It is very necessary for you to interact with people to gain their attention. Even if you are a shy and introvert person, you will have to come out of your shell in order to become popular. It is very necessary for you to interact with people to gain their attention.
  2. STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE When people know that they can lean on you and trust you with something, they tend to like you. Therefore be willing to get out of your comfort zone, to help people. When people know that they can lean on you and trust you with something, they tend to like you. Therefore be willing to get out of your comfort zone, to help people.
  3. TRY TO KNOW PEOPLE AROUND YOU You will be popular when the people around you will know you. Try and make the ways to know and to be introduced with people, who are around you anyway. You will be popular when the people around you will know you. Try and make the ways to know and to be introduced with people, who are around you anyway.
  4. MAKE TIME TO SEE PEOPLE You have to manage and pick up some times from your busy days, which you can spend with other people in comments, speeches, ideas and so on. You have to manage and pick up some times from your busy days,  which you can spend with other  people in comments, speeches, ideas and so on.
  5. BE FRIENDLY  Popular people are generally friendly with almost everyone around. To be precise, be in good enough terms so that you are able to hold a short, friendly conversation with anyone in the room. Popular people are generally friendly with almost everyone around. To be precise, be in good enough terms so that you are able to hold a short, friendly conversation with anyone in the room.
  6. BE SOCIAL  When you will be social, it will be possible for you to meet more people. Try to match your life style with the society you belong to and respect the social pattern and customs. When you will be social, it will be possible for you to meet more people. Try to match your life style with the society you belong to and respect the social pattern and customs.
  7. ATTEND SOCIAL GATHERINGAny type of social gathering brings many people together. Be present there and try to be proactive at those gathering which will digg people's positive attention to you. Any type of social gathering brings many people together. Be present there and try to be proactive at those gathering which will digg people’s positive attention to you.
  8. JOIN A CLUB   At the similar way you can join any type of clubs and participate events to make your face known. At the similar way you can join any type of clubs and participate events to make your face known.
  9. MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIP There is an old adage that says 'making friends is easy, but maintaining friendship is difficult'. It's not necessary to call people all the time, to maintain relations. Just make sure that you are there in their bad times as well as when they need to share their happiness. There is an old adage that says ‘making friends is easy, but maintaining friendship is difficult’. It’s not necessary to call people all the time, to maintain relations. Just make sure that you are there in their bad times as well as when they need to share their happiness.
  10. TRY TO TALK TO EVERYONEWho crosses your path. However, do not be a bugger, just smile and give greetings. If you receive a response, make a small conversation. Who crosses your path. However, do not be a bugger, just smile and give greetings. If you receive a response, make a small conversation.
  11. JUST SAY HI, WHO SPEAK A LOT Say hi to those who doesn't speak a lot. Each people have a story to tell. You'll never know how interesting a person is unless you start befriending them. Say hi to those who doesn’t speak a lot. Each people have a story to tell. You’ll never know how interesting a person is unless you start befriending them.
  12. KEEP YOUR ATTITUDE CASUAL Keep your attitude casual. In effect, make sure you just attempt a small talk with people you are not well aware of. Also make sure you choose light and safe topics to talk about. Keep your attitude casual. In effect, make sure you just attempt a small talk with people you are not well aware of. Also make sure you choose light and safe topics to talk about.
  13. BE AWARE OF CONTROVERSY   While talking to other, be aware about the topic you are talking about. Just careful about that if the conversation not drags you in controversy with others. While talking to other, be aware about the topic you are talking about. Just careful about that if the conversation not drags you in controversy with others.
  14. RESPECTFUL TOWARDS PEOPLE’S PRIVACY Be respectful towards people's privacy. Don't ask or say anything which is personal until the person is so close to you. Be respectful towards people’s privacy. Don’t ask or say anything which is personal until the person is so close to you.
  15. BE POLITEDon't be nosy and clingy. Try to decipher people's body language to understand their signals. In effect, don't invite yourself anywhere, don't brag, don't interrupt and most importantly, don't be annoying. Don’t be nosy and clingy. Try to decipher people’s body language to understand their signals. In effect, don’t invite yourself anywhere, don’t brag, don’t interrupt and most importantly, don’t be annoying.
  16. LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY   Rather than going on and on about yourself when you are talking with someone, ask other people how they are doing. Really listen to their responses. Rather than going on and on about yourself when you are talking with someone, ask other people how they are doing. Really listen to their responses.
  17. PAY ATTENTION TO OTHERS IN DEEPThe ability to pay attention to other people's thoughts, feelings and ideas is another quality that makes you a good friend. The ability to pay attention to other people’s thoughts, feelings and ideas is another quality that makes you a good friend.
  18. RESPECT EVERYONE A popular person not only respects himself, but everyone around him too. When you give proper respect a person, you secure a place in his heart forever. A popular person not only respects himself, but everyone around him too. When you give proper respect a person, you secure a place in his heart forever.
  19. GIVE COMPLIMENTS TO OTHERS To those who are generally nice, try giving them a compliment or two. Little stuff like I like your shoes, or nice tan! would suffice. Don't go overboard, they might take it differently. Be honest with your statements at all times. To those who are generally nice, try giving them a compliment or two. Little stuff like I like your shoes, or nice tan!  would suffice. Don’t go overboard, they might take it differently. Be honest with your statements at all times.
  20. FLATTER PEOPLE SINCERELY   When you give a compliment to other be aware as it does not seem flattering to them even flatter sometimes to make them happy but be tactful when you do that. When you give a compliment to other be aware as it does not seem flattering to them even flatter sometimes to make them happy but be tactful when you do that.
  21. MENTION PEOPLE’S NAMES WHEN YOU SPEAK To keep others' name in mind is important if you want others to keep your one in their mind and it also gives them a feeling of being honored and blows a positive attitude to you also. To keep others’ name in mind is important if you want others to keep your one in their mind and it also gives them a feeling of being honored and blows a positive attitude to you also.
  22. REMEMBER BIRTHDAYSWhenever you be close to other people try to know their birthday and generally wish and if possible give them a gift on their birthday. Your caring attitude will give you place in their mind. Whenever you be close to other people try to know their birthday and generally wish and if possible give them a gift on their birthday. Your caring attitude will give you place in their mind.
  23. BE RELIABLE AND TRUSTWORTHY  Never breaks your commitments, be responsible and don't tell ones secrets and privacies to others. Never breaks your commitments, be responsible and don’t tell ones secrets and privacies to others.
  24. TRY TO LEND OUT HELPING HAND Whenever possible, try to lend out a helping hand. For popular people, it's not only necessary to know everyone but also equally important to be helpful in terms with them. Whenever possible, try to lend out a helping hand. For popular people, it’s not only necessary to know everyone but also equally important to be helpful in terms with them.
  25. VOLUNTEERMake yourself a volunteer. Do those social, national, humanitarian jobs where people generally don't attend by leaving their own business. Make yourself a volunteer. Do those social, national, humanitarian jobs where people generally don’t attend by leaving their own business.
  26. ACT LIKE A LEADER In any group task show your creativity, ideas and skills which lead you to be the leader of the group and the leader is always known by others. In any group task show your creativity, ideas and skills which lead you to be the leader of the group and the leader is always known by others.
  27. BE NICEIt sounds really obvious, but the people who make friends most easily are the ones who are friendly, open and positive. Put a smile on your face, make eye contact with people, and you will find that people are just drawn to you. And friendship is not just about what you can get out of it. If you are generous and giving, you will find that your friendships flourish. It sounds really obvious, but the people who make friends most easily are the ones who are friendly, open and positive. Put a smile on your face, make eye contact with people, and you will find that people are just drawn to you. And friendship is not just about what you can get out of it. If you are generous and giving, you will find that your friendships flourish.
  28. BE POSITIVE People like the positive vibes that a confident person gives out. Therefore, be optimistic at all. This will not only make you popular amongst people, but also help you grow as a person. People like the positive vibes that a confident person gives out. Therefore, be optimistic at all. This will not only make you popular amongst people, but also help you grow as a person.
  29. BE OPTIMISTIC No one wants to hang around with a grouch. We all have a bad day now and then, but try not to focus on the negatives in your life. The ability to roll with life's little disappointments is an admirable quality. No one wants to hang around with a grouch. We all have a bad day now and then, but try not to focus on the negatives in your life. The ability to roll with life’s little disappointments is an admirable quality.
  30. DON’T BE A FOLLOWER Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to do it too. People who aren't afraid to make their own choices in life exude confidence, which is a common trait of popular people. Just because  everyone else is doing it  doesn’t mean you have to do it too. People who aren’t afraid to make their own choices in life exude confidence, which is a common trait of popular people.
  31. STOP THINKING TOO MUCH ABOUT YOURSELFEmpathy is a virtue you cannot do without if you want to be popular. Try to relate to people around you and be interested in them. Talk to them on common grounds so that they find you compatible. Empathy is a virtue you cannot do without if you want to be popular. Try to relate to people around you and be interested in them. Talk to them on common grounds so that they find you compatible.
  32. USE YOUR SKILLS If you want to be popular you have to use some people skills so people remember and want to talk to you again. If you want to be popular you have to use some people skills so people remember and want to talk to you again.
  33. POSTUREPay attention to the way you carry your body. Don't stop, shuffle or look listless. Keep your back straight when you walk and when you sit, but don't overdo it, otherwise it will look artificial. Pay attention to the way you carry your body. Don’t stop, shuffle or look listless. Keep your back straight when you walk and when you sit, but don’t overdo it, otherwise it will look artificial.
  34. EYE CONTACT Don't be afraid of eye contact when talking, but don't overdo it, as this might be interrupted as rudeness. Don’t be afraid of eye contact when talking, but don’t overdo it, as this might be interrupted as rudeness.
  35. OPEN BODY LANGUAGECrossing your hands or legs are signs that you are closing yourself, which tends to alienate people from you. Keeping an open body language, without crossing hands or feet, encourages people to open to you. Crossing your hands or legs are signs that you are closing yourself, which tends to alienate people from you. Keeping an open body language, without crossing hands or feet, encourages people to open to you.
  36. TALKINGDon't talk too fast or too slow and speak to the point. Keep your voice quiet, but clear. Apart from having a relaxing influence on the people you are talking with, they will have to pay more attention to what you are saying. Don’t talk too fast or too slow and speak to the point. Keep your voice quiet, but clear. Apart from having a relaxing influence on the people you are talking with, they will have to pay more attention to what you are saying.
  37. IMPOSE YOUR HUMORTry watching late night comedy shows to develop your sense of humor. You can also pick up some pointers from these programs and apply them to your daily conversations with people. Try watching late night comedy shows to develop your sense of humor. You can also pick up some pointers from these programs and apply them to your daily conversations with people.
  38. BE A GOOD LISTENERBeing a good listener makes you more popular, and encourages other people to share you things they wouldn't usually share with others. Being a good listener makes you more popular, and encourages other people to share you things they wouldn’t usually share with others.
  39. SHOWING INTERESTIf you show interest in people they will like you more. It is like pampering their ego. Ask questions, show real interest, and listen to what people say. If you show interest in people they will like you more. It is like pampering their ego. Ask questions, show real interest, and listen to what people say.
  40. IGNORE OTHERS NEGATIVE COMMENTSIf someone comes up and throw negative remarks on you, just let them be and ignore them. Your life doesn't depend on their comments. No one is perfect after all, so don't expect that everyone would be nice. If someone comes up and throw negative remarks on you, just let them be and ignore them. Your life doesn’t depend on their comments. No one is perfect after all, so don’t expect that everyone would be nice.
  41. DON’T TRY TOO HARD Surprisingly, many popular people don't put too much conscious effort into it. They simply are themselves. If you're desperate to be popular, it will show in your actions, and people will think you're a poser, or worse, a freak. Surprisingly, many popular people don’t put too much conscious effort into it. They simply are themselves. If you’re desperate to be popular, it will show in your actions, and people will think you’re a poser, or worse, a freak.
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