Don’t allow them to overpower you
Women seem to smell a guy with low self esteem miles off and this is the reason why they always end up using or abusing such men. But in order to really get them dancing to your tunes you need to overpower them every single time. Don’t give her the impression that you are weak even when you are. You see you might have to fake it till you make it.
Have a don’t care attitude
Now this is something you need to master in order to get girls to chase you down and do anything for you. You see girls tend to be more attracted towards guys who have don’t care attitude and don’t care much about what’s going on around them. You see it instantly make you a rare commodity and girls always chase rare guys and are ready to do anything for them.
The Dominant Personality
In general, women will automatically comply with a strong, dominant personality. The mistake that most guys make is that they never try to project a strong first impression – in the end they become the follower rather than the leader. In order to be the leader in the relationship, you must establish this ‘frame’ early on – as early as when you first approach her. This is very important, so take heed!
You do not have to be ‘better’ than other guys – just different. Your character must be portrayed in a way that you are totally unlike the other guys. Show that you are special, and she must be grateful that you choose to be with her.
Attraction Basics Building
Attraction basics involve two particular factors: being a valuable guy in the eyes of a girl, and making that girl experience tons of emotions. If you have the ability to master both of these factors, you should have no trouble building attraction between the two of you.
Be in style
Be in style – and consider a personal makeover. Either a simple change of hairstyle or a visit to your favorites clothing shop should do the trick. Do some research and don’t be afraid to ask, an experienced sales person or your hairstylist can provide advice on styles that suits you best. It’s not just about looking good, being presentable is as much if not more important to girls nowadays.
Studies show that most girls are naturally attracted to guys with a well balanced self confidence. You can be the funniest guy, have the most interesting conversation in mind or simply have that soft and sensitive side that a girl desire; without self confidence, your natural personality wouldn’t show.
How’s your personal and financial status? Do you actually have the financial capability to start dating? Do bear in mind that dating or being in a relationship will involve money; you may also be in the age when a woman takes into consideration the financial status of a date or partner.
Unfortunately, no matter what you do, the truth is that not all girls will instantly or ever fall for you. Don’t give up and loose hope, never go into the “self-pity” mode. Immediately start looking for somebody else, remember it’s a sea of girls out there.
Make her want to be around you. Have a good sense of humor, and do not complain to her about things that bother you. Discuss things that you both have in common. Become lovers, and show her you care! After that she will do anything for you.
In order to receive affection, you must give it as well
Do not wait for her to do it first or it becomes a game. If you are not comfortable with each other, don’t laugh at things, or don’t enjoy walking hand in hand, then you will never get affection from her because she just will not care about you.
Always Compliment her when she does something nice
Do not just be false in your words. Be honest and she will enjoy you more. Do not prepare a script of how to have her show you affection. Do not plan it. It is a normal act that is displayed when one truly cares for the other. Just be yourself, be fun to be with, enjoy her company and show it in little ways.
Bring her something special when you go to meet her
It doesn’t have to be anything big; it could be a candy bar, or a funny card. It’s a nice gesture to show that you are interested in her, and want to please her. It will attract her and fall in love with you and then you get every thing from her that you want.
Make an impression
There’s no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill or talent that you’re proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too.
Be her friend best friend
When you are a best friend of her then he trusts you all the time
Have a great personality
Laugh a lot and crack jokes. Be alive and have fun. Nobody likes a boring old wet blanket. Every girl like those men who have a great personality, Make your personality high then every girl will fall in love with you and then you can get everything from a girl.
Always remain a bit of a mystery
This way she won’t lose interest too fast. For example, if you just met her and she asks about your job, give a few details but don’t go over board because she will probably ask you about it some more herself, making her feel more included in the conversation.
Always make sure she’s OK
If she’s sad, find a way to make her happy. If she’s happy, help her stay that way, so that both of you can have a great day.
Show her you’re interested in her by saying, for example, “I like your shirt”
If you feel she may like you back then move on to complimenting her looks slightly – but not in a perverted way. Tell her she’s beautiful or that she has nice eyes.
If she is a shy girl
You could contemplate why she is shy, and then when you decide on a reason, speak to her. However, this will only delay things, since amateur psychoanalysis is not necessary for starting a relationship with a shy girl.
Speak to her tenderly
Speak to her tenderly, so as not to scare her off. If you want to talk intimately about your relationship, carefully judge whether the time is appropriate and whether she seems interested or willing to converse. Begin with a question that seeks understanding and does not seem accusatory. Use her name, and ask her something like, “Do you want to talk about something?” Questions like, “Why don’t you ever talk to me?” that are in her face are never appropriate.
Be her hero
Whenever she is in trouble or worried about something, don’t just sit there with nothing to say. Acknowledge that you don’t have all the answers, and that you may not know exactly what she’s going through.
Girls love guys who are great in conversations. It is also a show-off of intelligence, part of subconscious evolutionary preference. If you don’t possess wit, make sure you have other things to show off your intelligence. Academic excellence, athletic achievement, or any kind of creative abilities whether artistic or literary will do. It could be mathematical, spatial, logical, technological – analytical or just about anything to show that you have a highly developed brain.
Be financially independent
Most of us aren’t blessed with wealth, but be able to pay your own way. Women don’t like freeloaders. Women want a man who can provide enough money to afford a life.
Have a great attitude
Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just don’t be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually, she will find it selfish. Don’t try to impress everyone – girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of humor is always good. Girls love it when guys can make them laugh.
Respect her friends and their ideas and opinions
Always speak highly of her and never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours and she’ll possibly dump you. Of course, her friends are going to tell her that you trash talked her. Also, be careful not to compliment her friends too much,
Be polite to her parents
Be kind to everyone, especially to her parents. Don’t be too over-the-top charming with the parents, however, or they’ll think that you have something to hide.
Be romantic, but not over the top
If you’ve been dating for a while you may attempt a grand romantic gesture, otherwise, you’ll look like a stalker. It’s also okay to be a little cheesy, like giving her a bouquet of roses and a loving poem. It may sound like a bad idea, but girls will find it thoughtful if it came from your heart
Show your funny side
A lot of women look for sense of humor in a partner. You should however be mindful of their reactions to your jokes and avoid offensive humor, unless they like that. Find out if she likes comedy. If she watches Comedy Central, find out her favorite comedian or favorite impression and try it out for her.
Do something creative
Do something creative, something extraordinary or something that others never do. That creates a question mark for the girl about you, and it also makes you interesting.
Be friendly and caring
Ask her how she’s doing today. Don’t ignore her in front of your friends just because she is younger. Show your interest, first in a platonic sense. This will let her know that you care, first as a friend, and then later as something more.
Maybe she doesn’t want to date you. Maybe she isn’t ready. Above all, you must remember that a relationship takes two people. Don’t pressure her into anything she doesn’t want to do.
Manage your image
Before you can tame a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes.
Manage your reputation
While people around you begin to like you, you may start to appear phony or plastic. You must also subtly reveal your human side with talk of taboo and sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. Occasionally hint to people that you enjoy the company of young girls on a purely platonic level.
Do the opposite of what other guys do
If the girl is drop-dead gorgeous, ignore her. After hearing about your rakish reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
Never start a conversation focused on work, school, MySpace, family, TV shows, or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about exotic vacation spots, mythology, history, astrology, dreams, fate, and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don’t express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things.
Obey the correct sequence of physical interactions
Don’t move too fast. Wait for her to touch you flirtatiously. Hand-holding is next. Then comes close contact and embraces. Then comes kissing and then comes the making out and heavy petting and all the rest. The process should be slow, poetic and musical like Pachelbel’s Canon. There is no room for discomfort in seduction.
Look at her
If you ignore a girl you like, she will think that you are not attracted to her and move on. If you look at the girl, and she catches you, she will probably feel a little flattered. But try not to stare too often, as it might seem overdone.
Try to be chivalrous
Open doors for other people and volunteer to help with projects. Girls love seeing a boy who is compassionate.
Know the latest fashions, trends, music, movies, and TV shows
Pick up a newspaper or a magazine and read through all of the sections. Get a general knowledge of what is going on in today’s teen world so you will have a lot to talk about.
For Valentine’s Day
A dozen red roses may be the traditional romantic gift, but most girls will be better pleased with a few of their favorite flowers tied with a red, pink, or white ribbon. Actually remembering a girl’s favorites will endear you to her more than any elaborate scheme. If it’s early in the relationship, though, and you don’t know her favorites yet, a teddy bear (or other stuffed animal) is a perfectly fine fallback gift.
Break the ice
This is one of most seemingly dicey things to do, but once you have done this, holding a conversation and laughing will be easy, and you will begin to share a good rapport. A good laugh is always a smart way to break the ice.
Learn to be spontaneous
Taking acting class can help with ideas for breaking the ice, and can help you to be confident with talking to new people. Ideas flow and it becomes easier to enter into and disengage from conversation, and can help you be more comfortable with any situation.
Get close with the girl’s family
Knowing that she has her family’s approval makes her more comfortable, and knowing that you are a likable person is another plus, find out what her interests are and make an effort to connect with them.
Assume her generosity
If a girl happens to say something like, “Do you want to go get a drink?” or “Let’s go get drinks” say: “Yeah! That sounds great; I’ll take a jack and coke” or whatever drink you want. If you say this with conviction as if you really mistook her meaning, it’ll probably work, because most people won’t say “No, I meant YOU buy” or “Give me the cash for it.” If it doesn’t work, fall back on “You get the first round and I’ll get the second.”