69 Ways to Make Love

How to Make Love

69 Ways to Make Love

Set the mood

In order to make love the right way proper mood is very important. You simply can not satisfy your partner if he or she is in a negative or a bad mood. This is the major reason why some couples feel love making was absolutely awesome sometimes whereas other times it’s just ordinary. You and your partner’s mood has a big role to play in love making. To keep the heavenly magic intact in love making altips do it when you feel the situational moods are right.


Love making is all about romance and emotional attachment towards each other. Romance is extremely important to add that extra spice before you start taking your clothes off. Romance normally leads to an exceptionally better love making and you get more satisfaction each time you make love.

Use words

Words are a very important part of love making and should be used wisely. The pleasure from making love doubles when you tell your partner how much you want him or her. Research has shown that couples which involve more feelings and emotions in love making are known to be happier in the long term.

Tease Her Mind First

The difference between men and women is that the brain is the largest erogenous zone that women have. Instead of jumping to the main event, it is all about applying your mind seduction skills to woo her in bed. Treating her right, sending her sexy text messages or even giving her a backrub without asking for anything in return after a long day will already send the signal that you care for her. Tease her mind during the day, and things will quickly sizzle up when you finally get her alone at night.

Don’t Skip The Foreplay

Skipping foreplay is one of the most common mistakes that men make when they make love first time ever. Consult any book on this topic and you will discover that skipping on the foreplay is a ‘mortal sin’ – so engage in a long-winded playful, sexy session before getting to the main event.

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Start slowly and build your way up to an earth-shattering climax. Finally, learning how to love your woman is all about starting slowly and building your way up to an earth shattering climax. Tease every erogenous part of her body with your hands, tongue and lips – to make the sex between the two of you simmer – and allow things to heat up from there.

Sexual positions to rotate around

Whenever you feel like you are about to reach an orgasm, change your sexual position the minute you find the chance to. Doing this will give you more control over the situation; plus, the interruption would be a great advantage for your partner.

Have a prep routine ready

Make it a habit to masturbate before going out on a date in order to lower any possibilities of you shooting your load by accident and leaving your woman unsatisfied.

Numb the sensations

If you have thicker protection, you will get to control your orgasm as she has hers. A single change in condom brands could make your partner much happier and even pleasure her much more.

Find out what your boyfriend think is romantic

There is little reason to put rose petals all over his bed if he only gets allergic attack by it and think it is corny

Prepare the day

Although it is sweet to improvise, use some time to get the day to be correct. Remember that it may be difficult to get seats at the cinema or restaurant you like on a day like this, if you want to invite him out.

Take a bath together

An aromatic bath is altips super romantic. If you do not have a bathtub, then shower together and wash each other with fragrant oils or soaps.

Check into the hotel

Even if it is just a normal day. You get to spend a night of love in an unfamiliar bed.

Say No To Clinginess

The greatest mistake that most guys seem to make is being clingy when it comes to their girlfriends. You should know that nothing could kill attraction more than guys who seem “weak”. Because of this, you need to show your girl that you have your own personal bubble and your own personal dreams to chase, as well. If you have personal ambitions, your girlfriend will love you even more.

Show Actual Interest

Although it is important for you to have a personal world, you also need to pay close heed to what your girl likes. Girls happen to love talking, so they would love to have someone listen to what they like to talk about. If you lend your girl an ear, she will believe that you truly care for her.

Be Her Biggest Fan

Most girls are insecure, so it would be your main duty to stop her from feeling insecure. Altips lead her in the right direction while respecting her personal emotions and ideas at the same time.

Repaint your bedroom

This is the first and a very important step in making your bedroom a romantic haven. Get out all the furniture from your bedroom and paint it in the colors of love – pinks, or pastel shades with one wall in a dark color accentuating the favorite wall or the corner in your bedroom. In case you don’t want to repaint the bedroom, you can opt for some nice wallpapers to bring the freshness to your soon to be love nest.

Perfect size bed

After you have finished painting or putting the wallpaper now it’s time to select the perfect size bed for your bedroom. Remember even if you are short on storage space never compromise on your bed. The bed in the children’s room can act as a storage box but not yours. So choose a bed that is sturdy, elegant and fits into your room perfectly. Ideally you should go for king size bed but if your bedroom is small then you can also opt for queen size. After you have decided on the bed, choose a mattress to go with the bed. Remember to choose a mattress that not only gives you comfort while sleeping but also while you are getting downright dirty with your partner.

Give him that sexy look from time to time

When you look at him, make him feel that you want to make love to him. It is all in the eyes. For example, when he is getting dressed in the morning and you are in bed, let him know that you are looking at him. Let your eyes make him feel that he is the hottest guy you know.

Passionate love

When you talk to him make let him know that you love him with all your heart. Speak kind and caring words to him — they go a long way to open a man’s heart so that he can shower you with passionate love.

Support his passions

When you make your man feel that you “have his back”, he will go to the ends of the earth to do anything for you. He will fall in love with all his heart and soul.

Make him feel needed

Invite him to participate in important decision that will affect your life. When you make him feel that he is an indispensable part of your life, he feels appreciated, and he will appreciate and love you in return.

Be affectionate

Touch him, kiss him, and hug him daily. The mind and body are connected. When you do things that make his body feel good, his mind will react positively toward you.

Altips be ready to forgive and forget

When he does something that hurts you and he apologizes to you, don’t hold his misdeeds against him. And most importantly don’t shove it in his face at the slightest provocation. When you forgive him, he will love you even more.

Do not nag him

Your man will never do all the things you want him to do. So with that in mind, go easy on him when he forgets to do some things you asked him to do. When you go easy on him, he finds it much easier to overlook some of your imperfections and love you just the way you are.

Know yourself

Know and accept yourself the way you are today, now. This does not mean that you do not want any changes. Instead this means that you accept that you are ‘good enough’ just as you are now, and desire to become more of who you really are. If you can’t love and accept yourself unconditionally, it is unrealistic to expect anyone else to love you unconditionally.

Allow yourself to be seen

You can never feel truly loved if you can not let others see who you truly are. You have to let the person see who you are and allow him/her to accept you. When you feel total freedom to be yourself; be fully open, honest, transparent, without hidden agenda or hidden motive, and free of all insecurities and the like, you are more able to invite others to share your inner world – fears and vulnerability, dreams and deepest feelings of love.

Choose your life companion carefully

Do not chose someone based on how “good” it feels being around him/her; because you think you have some kind of advantage or power that you can use to control him/her or because you are desperate and lonely. Instead choose someone with whom you can become more than you have ever been before; someone who touches your very soul – and totally transforms you so that you’ll never be the same again. It is the difference between just being together and becoming together.

Fall deeply in love

Do not be afraid to fall deeply in love because that love might leave. People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Some people come into your life to serve a specific purpose and when that purpose is fulfilled they will depart. Others come into your life to support you during a certain period of your life. After you grow out of this period they no longer are needed so they must leave. And there are others who come in for the long haul. Just as the sun rises in the East and sets in the West, people coming and going is a natural rhythm of life and being too cautious with your heart means that you are missing out on living. The rhythm of life is not going to change for you – you might as well join the dance of life!

Let him/her be

Let go off expectation, let go off requirements and rules and regulations, let go off trying to get others to conform to what you believe to be the right way or perhaps, the way society dictates. This does not mean you stop caring, pretend nothing is wrong when something is bothering you or, don’t ask for what you want but an active process of choosing how you react, taking care of what needs to be done, expressing your feelings, releasing them, being done with it, and moving on. For if the person you love is restricted by you (and your feelings) he/she will not feel truly loved. Not totally.

Be supportive of his/her dreams

Teach yourself how to support your partner unconditionally. I say teach yourself because it is not altips easy, as it sometimes involves speaking the truth, yet doing so without withholding love, and giving moral support even if you do not approve of his/her dreams. It means acknowledging that he/she has his/her own hopes and dreams and if you love him/her you will encourage and support him/her in achieving those hopes and dreams.

Have a strong social network of your own

Don’t’ expect your partner to act as a cure-for-all (low self-esteem, loneliness, anger, boredom, sex, finances) etc. When you expect your partner to solve all of your problems you deny yourself and your partner innumerable opportunities for change, discovery and growth. The same applies to thinking that you and only you can solve his/her every single problem and meet all of his/her needs. Setting him/her free to find happiness and fulfillment outside of you will not only help you avoid relationship burn out but make the two of you closer because you both feel that you are growing and are fulfilled.

Make love consciously

Be generous with yourself by staying consciously relaxed. This is more than trying to stuff as much pleasure and energy into the genitals as quickly as possible so that you arrive at an orgasm or even trying to prolong orgasm or ejaculation (tightening the muscles and tensing the body) but taking the time to allow sexual energy to slowly build up, distribute itself throughout your system (mind, body and spirit) and revitalize it, so that you can experience even more pleasure and even more vitality. The more generous you are with your sexual energy, the more powerful the effect sexual energy will have in your entire life.

Live and let live

Love is something of here and now, not something you do to get a result, or get something for the future but an action in which you are fully present where you already are. An action that fulfills its own purpose at every single moment – one that does not need for you to hurry the moment but just let it be.

Make love to her, not just her body

Show your lover that you appreciate her, that she’s beautiful, and that she can trust you.

Tease and titillate her

Don’t go straight for the goods when the clothes come off. Show some restraint, tease her body and her mind… you’ll see the results instantly.

Take your time

Foreplay is not something invented by woman to frustrate us. Women take a lot longer to become aroused than men… so take 20 to 30 minutes before you even think about intercourse.

Let her fantasize

Women probably fantasizes more than men, believe it or not and this is a good thing. If you plant the seed of love making in her mind when she wakes up then she’ll rip your clothes off by dinner time.


Both woman and men need to communicate to each other there desires and pleasure zones. Women need to break down the fears that persist around love making and share with their man what feels good.


Each sexual partner must show an amazing amount of trust. Trust is essential in proper love making; each person needs to know their limits and has to share those limits with their partner. Making love is one of life’s greatest pleasures and it’s most intimate moment. Without trust both partners will erect barriers, no pun intended, which can hinder their love making.


If your woman has a favorite toy, there is no reason why it should not be brought into any love making session. Guys, if she likes it, you should try and implement it. It can bring her more pleasure and it’s her pleasure that will make you feel grateful and happier. Her happiness will altips be your happiness.

Oral sex

Let’s not beat around the bush here, both women and men love oral sex. But, some women who enjoy giving it, do not altips like receiving it. Sometimes women can feel apprehensive about letting a man go there. Men should open up and discuss all reservations with their partner.


Exploring a women’s body is an adventure every man should take. Women have all types of erogenous zones beside the one men focus on.

The Right Angle Position

In this position, the woman has to lie back putting his bottom at the edge of a bed or a table, for a change. While the man stands in front of the woman, he would start caressing her clitoris and her breasts as he is entering her. The couple will surely feel very satisfied with this lovemaking position. Try doing angulations to modify this position to add more pleasure.

Take it slow

Spend a lot of time on kissing and foreplay. Be reassuring and tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her.

Help him to loveÖ..

Use a lubricant to help ease the pain. The more lubricated she is, the less pain you both will experience while making love.

It’s not done

Hold her close in your arms and stroke her hair. Just lie there and relax until you fall asleep or….who knows, she might want to go again! Good luck!

Clip Position

Start by letting the man lie down with his legs outstretched. The woman will then sit on top of him, letting him inside her. In leaning back, the woman allows the man to stimulate her clitoris which is to give greater and more satisfying pleasure. This is one of the proven how to make love secrets you should not miss.

Doggy Position

The woman would go down on all fours with her hips towards the ceiling. This lovemaking position will drive the woman crazy. While on this position, the man could enter the woman and tilting the woman’s hips more towards the ceiling will give both of you greater pleasure.

The Belly Flop Position

In this position, the woman lies down on her stomach, putting all her weight on her forearms. One of his legs should be bent on one side and the man will be on top of her and enter her from behind. Place a pillow under her hips for better access and you will be sure you will be hitting the g-spot.

Calm her nerves

She will definitely be very nervous doing it the first time. Spend some time cuddling together. Take things slowly. A little alcohol may calm her down a little.

Give her assurance

As this will be a very emotional process for her, she will need a lot of assurance, care and love. Assure her that all these elements are present and demonstrate how much you love her by going the extra mile to make her first time as pleasurable as possible.

Do not enter her before she is wet

If she is not wet enough and you enter her, you may cause her a lot of pain. Make sure that you spend a considerable amount of time on foreplay and make her as wet as possible.

Be gentle

During intercourse, thrust in a slow and steady movement. Do not try too many “tricks” and keep it as simple as possible. It will be good to adopt at most 2 different positions.

Tons of Confidence

Ooze it. Radiate it in the bedroom…and before you get there. Make her feel like she’s LUCKY to have the opportunity once in a while. You may be surprised at how she shows her gratitude…

Set the Stage

It means that METAPHORICALLY guys… (No risers and drum kits, please!) Create an AMBIANCE of erotic energy. Strut a little bit. Music, lights down….shows her that you’ve been there before.

Be adventurous

None of the same old, same old tonight. Try some new and exciting things you’ve wanted to do for some time. Take the lead, and keep her safe…she will follow.

Stimulate her senses

The finer things are an aphrodisiac. A good bottle of wine, an expensive meal….even an exotic chocolate is VERY erotic and a big turn on as well if you know when and where to bring it in.

Look at making love instead of just”sex”

Sexual release is the ultimate delight of making love but enjoying foreplay can last for hours. Slow down your pace as you exchange your feelings and take a more open approach to lovemaking.

Start thinking more about yourself and what you can do to create a better lovemaking environment

Something you wear that is fun to talk about but never embarrassing. A special scent you both appreciate. Supper time with the kids can be a special moment. It’s all in your mind not in your genitals. How does your heart feel about making love? It must come from the heart. Trust me you will never make love the same way again if you “do it” with your heart.

Forget the obligation. What’s the hurry?

You should be in the mood to cuddle, kiss and exchange loving words all the time. Do you? Are you and your partner the most important union in the universe?

Find a willing and clean partner

You and the partner will be in a serious, monogamous relationship. While casual sex could be fun, it can lead to painful or life-threatening sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and unwanted pregnancy.

Find the right moment

Making love is often a spontaneous event, and too much planning can ruin the mood. However, you want to be sure you are in a safe environment where no one will barge in on you.

Heavy Breathing

A night of love can raise the amount of oxygen in cells, helping to keep organs and tissues functioning at their peak.

Purchase birth control and STD prevention

The female can choose from a variety of birth control methods, while the male should purchase condoms.

Sexual relations with your partner

Find out their sexual history, and discuss if you are mature enough and emotionally ready to have sex. If you can’t say “I love you” to the person, you are not ready to have sex.

Take a bubble bath together

Fix a nice warm bubble bath and share it together. Touch, kiss, smile. Let the most important person in your life feel your love.

Ensure that she is ready to lose her virginity

Some women will say that they are ready to make love just to make you happy. It isn’t fair to pressure a woman into giving you her virginity.

Feels romantic

Set the mood with candles and soft music. The more relaxed she is, the more likely she is to enjoy the lovemaking experience.

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