Be Sure YOU Want To
There is a huge amount of pressure that goes along with the First Time you kiss someone. Media bombards people with messages, parents give messages, and friends give messages. , Try to tune ALL of those out, and think about yourself. How do you feel about it? How do you feel about your relationship? Will your decision be one that makes you proud? You need to do what is best for *you*. Do not let yourself be pressured into anything.
Work Up to It
Don’t just go in to kiss someone you haven’t even touched before. Read all of the Advice on Getting Close to build up the comfort level between you two. , When you kiss you don’t want her nervous about your hand on her arm, before you even get your lips near her!
Set a Relaxed Scene
You¥re going to probably be nervous the first time just because it *is* the first time. Plan the surrounding time and situation to be as comforting as possible. Do it somewhere quiet, not the doorstep of your date’s house! Make sure no little brothers or sisters or friends are running around. Give yourself time so you’re not rushed. If you are comfortable, everything else becomes that much better.
Keep Expectations Reasonable
Media gives us HUGE expectations for the first time. There will be bells ringing, fireworks exploding. Remember, this is a personal expression between just you two. Truly learning to please each other will evolve over a lifetime. The first time is just the first step – in hopefully a long series of steps bringing you closer together
First Kiss – General Hints
How do you kiss him/her for the first time? , Softly and slowly. You don’t want to bump faces on your first time out. A sweet brush of lips feels good whether it’s your first time or your hundred and first time. , *Remember that a kiss is a very sensory act. You’ll be close enough to breathe the person in, to feel their skin against yours. Side note – be sure you showered earlier!, *Relax!*Be aware of your partner. Is he/she leaning in or holding back waiting for you to move? If they’re leaning in, you can gently lay one hand against their cheek and lean to meet their lips., *Begin with your lips closed. Keep it soft and light. Leave the fancy stuff for later on – the first kiss is about savoring the *moment* of how special it is that you are now at the kiss
First, everybody kisses differently. And everybody likes to be kissed differently! So your true aim is to find out what style YOU enjoy, and then what style your MATE enjoys and how to meld the two. Some like gentle kisses. Some like passionate kisses. Some like dry kisses. Some like wet, sloppy kisses. , Your first kisses should be slow, languorous, and gentle. They’re a progression from the hug, and a way of furthering the touch in a more intimate way. You should already be comfortable with the hug with this person, and comfortable standing close face to face. So now the only ‘new’ thing you’re introducing is the kiss. When you’re near the person (standing or sitting) and ready for the kiss, it’s good to start with a cheek-kiss. That’s an “innocent kiss “and a “you’re special “move. Either the boy OR the girl can do this. Squeezing his/her hand at the same time is another way of saying “you’re special”. You can see if your partner likes this, or feels uncomfortable. If they’re uncomfortable, no big deal, just stay at that level until the comfort comes back again, maybe in a few days or a week or two. , But let’s say you both enjoy the cheek-kiss and are ready for more. You already have the “it’s ok to kiss” mentality down now, which is good. So now instead of going for the cheek, go for the lips. Again, be soft. Press your lips gently against your partner’s, and savor the sensation of their skin against your own. Just hold it for a few moments, then release. , Once you’re comfortable with the basic kiss, you can move on to other styles!
Look inviting and approachable.
wait for her invitation or wait for the proper or romantic timing to kiss her/him in a adorable way. Proper timing is the vital role player while kissing your lover/girlfriend
Break the “touch barrier”
Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you’re talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don’t make a big deal out of it. , Please note that the touch barrier is culture dependent. In certain cultures, e.g. Islamic, breaking the touch barrier is a big taboo that can land you in serious trouble. Be very careful.
Look at their lips
Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person’s lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don’t have to be really obvious about it.
Best Approach for the kiss
Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position-you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position-but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact.
Close your eyes
As your lips make contact with theirs, pucker them slightly and close your eyes. If you “over pucker” your lips will become tense, which is better for the platonic peck not for romance.
For a passionate kiss timing
Put your hand(s) on your partner’s face, neck, or hair and hold them close as your tongues meet. Gently suck or nibble on their lips here and there. Breathe deeply. Kiss the person like you just can’t get enough of them, and like you might never get to kiss them again.
Keep it brief
The amount of time your lips spend on the other person’s cheek or lips should be limited to whatever it takes to make that kissing noise described in the previous step – nothing more. If your lips linger, it won’t seem so platonic. In some settings, it might be appropriate to not make any lip to skin contact at all
Best times for Kiss
The best times are when you are saying good night, during a movie at a romantic scene, if you are talking about something important then the conversation just stops (but isn’t awkward), or when you are cuddling her.
Times when you should not kiss
Whatever you do, don’t kiss her first thing in the morning before she brushes her teeth (that’s just bad) Don’t kiss her after she just got done eating onions (that’s just bad too). Kiss her in the middle of a conversation when she least’s expects it. (She’ll remember that forever).
when you both feel like you are ready. And she is expecting it. Don’t worry. The right time will come. You will feel it.
Its right time
When you feel like its right, don’t do it because you feel obligated to Do it when you feel closest to her
Choose a place
wait for the good time and take her to a nice place and when you both are ready and then just kiss her & make sure you are not hurting her by any way
Best time in a relationship to kiss
A good way to tell this is to observe how they look at you, do they look at your lips a lot, when they look at you, do they look directly into your eyes, etc.
Good Sign of kiss
A good time to do it would be if you flirt with them and touch them, by touching their arm, or holding their hand and look into their eyes.
Follow your heart & wish
it’s not easy to define the right times for a kiss to your girlfriend but remember when your physical & psychological desire to kiss just use that time for best time to kiss your girl
The progressive way
First you two are out. Just you two with no friends around. Be your usual charming self. Make eye contact, smile. Have fun and make her have a good time. During the course of the time out AND AS LONG AS EVERYTHING IS GOING WELL just give a light touch on her upper arm – just tap her and point over there and say something- and start to kiss her gently
Depends on certain issues
It depends on the situation, but don’t think of it as “hugging, kissing, or shaking hands. “Think of it as basically physical touching, and do it whenever it could come off as the most natural thing to do.
when talking to a woman at a bar (which might be crowded and noisy), lean in and talk very close into her ear while touching the side of her arm or elbow. This type of touching is also known as a “kinesthetic approach”, Kino for short. You want to a women, soon after meeting her, to feel comfortable (and possibly aroused) with this type of touching from you. It displays to her that you are a sexual being and are not afraid to move in close or make contact.
How to treat her before
Don’t treat touching like a business affair, treat it like subtle animalistic human contact. Your hand stroking her hair, touching her hand, arm around her shoulder, whispering in her hear and making sure your lips brush against her lobes. That’s sort of thing.
Understanding is main thing
when u both understand each other…n both do that thing what the other says I mean if your love reached a saturation n both r living not for themselves but for your beloved that will be the time.
In bed, while one of you is asleep
You know from fairy tales that the kiss that awakens can lead to happily ever after. There’s simply no lovelier way to wake up. As the kisser, however, you’re advised to refrain if the kiss-ee is recuperating from a double shift after a bout of insomnia.
In the back seat
Find yourselves a lover’s lane, climb into the passion pit, and neck until you steam up the windows. It’s retro romantic.
In a downpour
Yes, kissing in the rain is kind of clichÈ, but if you haven’t tried it, please do. The reason these kiss rules? Everyone else is frantically running for shelter, which makes time seem to stop for the two of you. It’s surreal and very sexy.
You don’t need Speedy skills to pull it off. One person simply sits in a chair and tilts his or her head back while the other person approaches from behind, bends over and plants one. Or try it with one person lying on a couch, head against the armrest, and the other person standing above and leaning over. It’s a little awkward, a little weird – and absolutely wonderful.
In a dressing room
Are you the type who’s turned on by the idea of a public display of affection – but would prefer some darned privacy? The dressing room rendezvous affords the best of both worlds. Plus, it has illicit allure (sneaking someone in where he or she technically isn’t supposed to go) without setting off theft detectors
There is something about the first kiss that just dictates that the two of you must be alone. It’s a moment that you will both want to remember, and a crowd of people surrounding you will not enhance this particular memory. , If you and your girl are at a crowded restaurant or club, or with other people, and you get the feeling that she’d like to be alone with you, ask her if she’d like to accompany you somewhere. Take her for a walk or a drive, get into your own intimate party of two, and wait for the sparks to start flying.
Have good breath
For God’s sake, don’t blow your chance to kiss her because you ate ludicrous amounts of garlic at dinner and forgot to bring gum! A good way to avoid this is by thinking ahead and keeping spices and foods that tend to linger to a minimum at dinner. So, when you’re ordering, hold the onions and stay away from garlic, curry, and other pungent spices, and opt for foods with lemon or mint instead. , Always keep a pack of gum or mints in your car or in your jacket pocket, and pop some in your mouth as soon as you finish your meal or glass of beer. If you even try to kiss her with horrible breath, you can be sure that that will spell the end.
Pick your moment
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss her. So, you should take the opportunity to do so. , If she is trying to get something out of her eye, or is talking about something that she feels really strongly about, don’t kiss her and think that you are being spontaneous. She’ll probably wonder what possessed you to do so at such an awkward moment. After all, bad timing is not something that you want to be remembered for.
Never ask a woman for her permission to kiss her. Despite what you might think, women, in general, like it when their man takes charge, especially during a passionate moment. Asking for her permission will make you seem timid and unsure; not sweet and sensitive. So, be a man and kiss her. , Of course, before you do so, you must be sure that she wants you to. Check her body language: if her body is facing, leaning toward, or touching yours, and she is smiling, biting her lip, or playing with her hair, chances are that she’s interested in you. So, pick your moment and go for it, boy.
Take it easy
This moment should feel like it is moving in slow motion. There is nothing that will turn a woman off faster than a guy who moves too quickly, especially if this is the very first time you are even going to kiss her. , So relax, take a deep breath and make the moment last. Enjoy it and appreciate every second of it. , Find out if it’s okay to touch her…
I’ve heard women tell stories of guys who left them feeling like a very friendly St. Bernard had just finished greeting them. I think it’s fair to assume that this is not a comparison you would enjoy. So, my last piece of advice is to avoid it by not slobbering all over her. Keep your saliva to yourself.
Watch your tongue
Never shove your tongue down her throat — she might choke. Seriously, if you do this, you will come across as an overeager adolescent who has never kissed a woman before. Keep your tongue to yourself; at least for the first kiss. , If the attraction is so strong that you both feel like you want to take that next step, you can gently tease her with your tongue, but practice restraint. Doing so will only keep her hungry for more.
Pretend she’s sleeping
Kissing a woman during an intense lovemaking session is different than kissing her for the first time. Your approach during that first kiss should be as though she’s sleeping and you don’t want to frighten her. , Your lips should touch hers softly and slowly. And you should gently awaken her sensual side; not force it out of her like an alarm clock scaring her out of bed
Close your eyes
While eye contact is good up until this point, make sure to close your eyes while you are kissing her. There is nothing weirder to a woman than a guy who kisses with his eyes wide open., If she catches you with your eyes open, she may even think that you are not really enjoying the moment, and feel insecure as a result. Besides, a great kiss is much more enjoyable when you are completely immersed in it, and closing your eyes will help to block out any distractions
Don’t go from talking across a table to planting your lips on her face; touch her. Put your hands on her hips or around her waist and gently pull her toward you. Then, run your fingers through her hair, and cup her beautiful face in your hands. , Slowly lean in toward her and kiss her sensuously on the cheek, making your way to her lips. While you kiss her, caress her body and feel her getting goose bumps.
Need to be Smell Good
For starters, you will want to smell good-all over your body. The sense of smell in art of kissing is a sensual part of the whole essence of kissing and you want to make sure your overall scent takes his breath away and makes him want to kiss you more.
The gist of the KISS
A kiss is an intimate touch and contact that conveys passion and desire. It is a form of body communication that can express more than words ever could. Your kiss is also very personal, it will change based on who you are kissing and why.
The fact of wet kiss
Not something for everyone, but certainly something that some will enjoy, the wet kiss doesn’t think about properness or drool; it simply ignores these very mundane things. A wet kiss is generally so intense that neither person notices, or cares.
Know your partner
It’s very obvious to know your partner & her tastes about relationship. Try to discover how she feels desire about kiss, sex & timing is most important rather than kissing her in unusual timings.
Don’t Ignore it
don’t be afraid to tell him what you like and dislike about the art of kissing. No one is the perfect kisser, and he should be receptive to your feedback and suggestions. If he’s not, then maybe it is time to move on and find someone else to kiss!
Never feel like you have to do something you don’t want to, whether it makes you uncomfortable or you just don’t enjoy it. Most importantly, have fun! While there is some effort involved in perfecting your kissing skills, it should mostly be a fun, enjoyable activity for both of you.
Make her compatible
Try to clear your intention before going for a kiss, if you feel the sex or just kiss try to make it clear to her, a small kiss is better while in the daylight or you both in the outside.
Quick Kiss Meanings
K-I-S-S keep it simple stupid don’t over do it and just have fun , 1.breathe ,2.good hygiene ,3.you can look into her or his eyes ,4.don’t rush ,5.don’t stick your tongue down her or his throat ,6.don’t dart your tongue around ,7.if u nibble their lip tongue ear etc don’t bite too hard ,8.you don’t have to kiss if you aren’t ready ,9.you can experiment ,10.have a passionate time with your love
Kiss is the combination
Kiss is the combination of physical attractions & psychological settings. If you really want to kiss somebody then make him/her sure that she is feeling exactly as same as you are now, or make her understand the climax of kiss otherwise don’t go further.